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Whats important.....

Discussion in 'Social Issues' started by Laughing Man, May 18, 2007.

  1. Laughing Man

    Laughing Man садистский делирий

    Whats important in a relationship to you?
    Nice Ass, nice wallet?
    Pretty face, tight body?
    someone trustworthy?
    someone to stay with for ever, or a limited time?

    or do you just prefer someone you can look up to and call "Friend"?
    someone simply for a one-night stand, or some one you can call at 6am when you cant sleep?

    Whats your view of a good relationship?
  2. SurfSarge

    SurfSarge misfit

    Does she swallow is always my first question!
  3. Laughing Man

    Laughing Man садистский делирий


    rofl... ;D ;D
  4. travelman

    travelman Well-Known Member

    Well, being as old as I am, the first question is, "how many times a year will i manage to get it up with this chick?"
    and then of course the swallow, cause u dont wanna waste it once its up and ready ::)
  5. Dennis

    Dennis R.I.P.

    I have to say personality.
    Beauty and a smokin hot bod will only get you so far.
    Your going to have to talk to them at some point.
  6. cathy

    cathy Lurker

    for me.. besides physical attraction.. i have to say respect and trust.. when you respect your partner- you wont cheat on them.. and when you trust your partner-you wont be jealous.. making the relationship last.. :)
  7. SnakeBabe

    SnakeBabe Well-Known Member

    There are girls that don’t? ::)

    Hugs and Hissessss,
  8. SurfSarge

    SurfSarge misfit

    I havn't come across many but I have come
    across the catch and release!
  9. Norwegian Viking

    Norwegian Viking Well-Known Member

    She must have been into sportsfishing then :D
  10. SurfSarge

    SurfSarge misfit

    Indeed my friend..Speaking of catch n release
    after a half day of wakeboarding yesterday
    we cast netted a bunch of bait and ended up
    catching 2 sailfish and a few Mahi Mahi to
    finish it off with a 350 lb Tiger Shark all
    about 10 miles offshore trolling live baits
    We caught the Tiger because we slowed up and
    let the baits sink then all the sudden BOOM
    line was going off the reel like mad!
  11. Heero Valentine

    Heero Valentine Failed Abortion

    she has to be at least funny...
    i don't need a grumpy but hot girlfriend...
    or do i? :cool:
  12. Dennis

    Dennis R.I.P.

    A hot and Horney girlfriend would do ya more good.
  13. Heero Valentine

    Heero Valentine Failed Abortion

    xD good point dennis
  14. Monstermash

    Monstermash Well-Known Member

    I suppose it all depends on what you want out of the relationship, whether you just want a one night stand i.e. just sex or whether you want a relationship with them. If its sex then your going for the looks and the body but if your looking for a relationship then its got to be someone your compatible with, i.e. the same tastes in certain things, the same values. For me they would have to have a good sense of humour, like animals and music. There used to be a British TV show called 'Blind Date' not sure if its still going, but most of the time someone would pick a partner on the show and you could bet 9/10 they would'nt really get on with each other afterwards. It would be interesting to know the statistics for where people actually met the person they later married, a lot of people marry people they've met in work, although I don't think that's a good idea. You got a problem at home you bring it to work, you got a problem in work, you bring it home :'(
  15. Dennis

    Dennis R.I.P.

    This is a little [​IMG] but I'm glad I'm married.
    Being single these days is sorta dangerous
    with all the nasty STDs that are out there now adays.
    It's not like when I was younger and all ya needed was a shot.
    and a week later your fine.
    People are dieing out there because of unprotected sex.
    Be careful folks, it's not just about birth control any more.
    It's about protecting yourself.

    I need a Trojan Man smilely
  16. Raidenator

    Raidenator Lurker

    I need it all. I can't just have one.

    I have to be able to trust her and be able to talk to her. But she also has to be good looking. The only thing I can do without is the money. I can manage on my own.

    Seriously though, there's a certain point where personality almost becomes their outward appearance. I think the better you get to know a person the better they look as long as they have a nice personality, at least that's what it's like to me. Still thuogh, beauty gets your foot in the door.
  17. Monty

    Monty Well-Known Member


    Thanks to HIV and a pretty damn effective public health campaign in the '80s (when I was in high school) I've yet to have sex without a condom.
  18. Monty

    Monty Well-Known Member

    Dude please...

    Well now- I'd have to say that the entire package is important in the Gestalt sense. Again in that sense- weight and fitness are *initially* unimportant: Show me an unhappily out of shape woman who's up for it and I'll have her fit in six months, tops: Personal Training, anyone?
  19. Monty

    Monty Well-Known Member

    You're either feeding an army or sadists here; no offence Sarge.

    Last! :)